Our Journey 45 Years Down Life's Highway

Normally we would be on the road today heading back to reality.  But today is a bonus day.  Tonight we stay at "Casa Ybel" on Sanibel.

June 12, 1976,  Forty-five years ago.  It would cost you 13 cents to mail a first class letter.  Gas was 61 cents a gallon.  The average annual income was $12,688.  A new home would run you around $49 grand.

Platform shoes, flares, afros, and mullets were all in style.  On the TV there was M.A.S.H., The Carol Burnette Show, and Hawaii Five-O.  The top song was "Silly Love Songs" by Wings.

Our non-married friends would come over to our apartment on Saturday nights and pass out on the couch watching "The Three Stooges".

We were young.  We were unsure.  We had no idea where Life's Highway would take us back then.  But through love, dreams, and hard work we plotted a path and worked on this journey together and look at where it has taken us.

Life lessons along the way were all landmarks in the journey that made us who we are today.  Things like patience, for when we tried to go too far too fast.  Persistence, when we thought we wouldn't make it but knew we had to keep trying.  Confidence, to get past those times when we worried if we could afford what we were setting out to do.

We've even passed some major mile markers along the way.  From Mom & Dad to NaNa & PaPa we raised a family and now they are out there plotting their own path down Life's Highway.

Today 45 years ago we chose one another.  Never really understanding the destination but always working together on the journey.

I couldn't have asked for a better traveling companion!


Casa Ybel


My companion down Life's Highway















 

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Shelllady said…
Happy Belated Anniversary!!! By the way...I Love your blog!!
December 10, 2021 at 8:11 AM
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